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Lightning bugs

Posted by Pat on July 19, 2008

As I was watching Jack and Rachel catch lightning bugs in the back yard, it brought back many memories of good times at Big Branch.  Peg and I and Ted’s bunch would descend on Grandma for days. I guess that she did not mind because they just turned us loose to roam the mountains and creek.  We went inside to eat and sleep only. It is a miracle that none of us were ever bitten by a copperhead or rattler. We dammed the creek to make  a small swimming hole. We found grapevines to swing on ( and fall off of often, since you did not know how sturdy they were or were not until you crashed). We didn’t get much sympathy for injuries unless they were life threatening.  I vividly remember the day that I got into a yellow jacket’s nest. A large tree had uprooted and fallen across the creek. There was a nest in the root ball and I stepped directly on it.  Some of the bees actually got imbedded in my hair and they had to cut them out. (I am not exaggerating) It was painful but not fatal. Thank goodness, Carolyn was not born yet, she has allergic reactions to bee stings. And I do not remember which older relative  it was who had me yelling down a bug hole at the top of my lungs for the lady bug to come out.  We played Red rover and hide-n-seek until it got dark and then we caught lightning bugs. We would pull off their tails and rub them on our skin and make  bracelets and necklaces  that glowed in the dark. No one told us that this was animal cruelty. I briefly thought about showing this to Jack and Rachel but did not want PETA on my doorstep labeling them as future serial killers. This generation has the best and worst of things. My grandchildren and their friends have to be entertained. They have game cubes, game boys, Wei’s, trampolines, swimming pools, play sets and such.  They have missed out on so much by not having to be creative. They love to go to Granny Fran’s and explore.  It is a sad commentary on our world that even in the best neighborhoods we can not let them have the freedom the roam.

6 Responses to “Lightning bugs”

  1. gail6310 said

    So true! I think so much about how we grew up and how happy we were. We had a good home, food, clothing, but no ‘extras.’ We made up so many games and, as you said, roamed the mountains and walked the roads. We were active and creative – - two things that they are now trying to get youngsters to be. They seem to have everything now, but in ways, they lack the most important things of life.
    It is so great to have all these memories from everyone. Vickie and I are brainstorming about doing a book of family memories in some form for our children and their descendants. So, keep on posting. We love it.

  2. cldeaver said

    I remember a close encounter with a snake under Grandpa’s house on Big Branch. It is a very hazy memory but I remember how much fun it was to be there. We always that urban legend about a black touring car that went down the road and some kid disappeared and was never heard from again. I heard that same story in NC. But, you know, we sure didn’t know of any true stories of kids being abducted that actually happened. We were wonderfully blessed to be able to have that degree of freedom. We didn’t know it was bad for the lightening bug. We would have stopped lol. I don’t know about you all but every summer I have extreme guilt when I am watching them. A lotta bugs died, but some precious memories were made every summer thanks to those lightening bugs. I think it gave the bugs a purpose in life and they died knowing that they made a difference lol they got to die bringing great joy. I love you. Keep posting.

  3. vickiebelinda said

    That is true! (having to entertain) I am amazed every time I see the commercial on t.v. urging children to get up and go outside and play!
    I enjoy reading your posts always. thanks for sharing.

  4. Jewel said

    Pat I just read your “lighting bugs”I enjoyed it so much.I was watching the bugs just last night and thinking how we played with them not realising we were being cruel.One of the favorite things we liked to do,was build sand castles making holes in sand,putting peices of broken glass for window and putting the bugs behind the glass to make the castle light up but we didnt kill them for that unless game unless we left them in too long and they suffacated.Keep memories coming!!!!

  5. Carolyn said

    I am home reading the Enquirer and I thought I would share that with you lol. Granny trained us well didn’t she? It makes me wish she was here to comment on it like she used to. That and her “stories”. Whenever I see Erica, I think of her. When Peggy comes, that’s the first thing she reads. I love you have a great day.

  6. glenna said

    Yes, I totally agree with all the comments. It is sad that the technology and indulgence on the part of parents has actually taken away some very good things from our children. I took Abby and Katie camping a few weeks ago.They are both 11. There was no tv or anything. we built up a camp fire and roasted marshmellows and told them ghost stories. They had the most amazing time! I was telling them then about how we squeezed the tails out of lightening bugs to make necklaces and they thought that was both cruel and nasty! LOL. Now I am mad at Jewel!! She never taught me how to do the sand castle and glass thing! This is the first I ever heard of that one! LOL

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